Things to consider when choosing a sex toy: what are all the functions? Do you want a toy for penetration only? Vibration only? What kind of vibration works for you?
If it’s your very first sex toy, I would suggest the following; buy one that is both for penetration & vibration with varying degrees of vibration in strength. Some women are more sensitive to the strength of vibration than others. Meaning some need a stronger vibration to stimulate themselves than other women. If you don’t enjoy vibrations from the toy, at least you have ended up with a toy that can be used for penetration alone.
Consider a toy with both clitoral & g-spot stimulation. Some women are more sensitive to clitoral stimulation than they are to g-spot stimulation. I would say most women prefer clitoral stimulation as the best way for them to achieve orgasm. Ahhhh & then there are those that prefer both clitoral stimulation & g-spot stimulation at the same time.
Vibrators can be used for nipple play, added into foreplay with a male partner for use on the penis or other regions in the groin area. They can be multi-use for sexual pleasure between partners. There are toys for use between couples during penetration.
Always use good hygiene practices, cleanse after use & right before use (can buy toy cleaners from the store you purchased the toy from). Use a condom on them if necessary to keep good hygiene.
Other considerations to take into account. Quality of the product, I would recommend a good grade of silicone (because it’s non-porous, meaning bacteria will not be able to settle into surface pores), no toxins of any kind, phalate free. Plug in vibrators are more powerful than battery operated. I have a personal preference for the rechargeable toy.
“Orgasms are not where you should save the money”. In the world of vibrators, generally good quality comes at a price.
Tell me which toy has worked for you & why 🙂
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For me personally I like the option of both clitoral and g-spot stimulation, so my “friend” of choice is the FANTASTIC Lelo Soraya, it has 2 motors & if you put it on the alternate pulse setting it’s MIND BLOWING!! It’s also silicone, waterproof & rechargeable. Take a look here -http://girlstalktoys.com/store/product.php?productid=60622&cat=257&page=2
At Girls Talk Toys we obviously sell sex toys, our biggest sellers, and therefore toys that work for our customers are vibrators like the Lelo Siri, a very small discreet external toy, & numerous “Rabbit” style vibrators, both the original type and more modern versions.
Hope this helps 🙂
Happy experimenting
Indi
http://www.GirlsTalkToys.com